I believe making love is just what the phrase says - including in casual, recreative sex.Sex is a relationship.Sex is something I do WITH someone and TO someone. ...

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Average reading time: 9 minutes I believe that the ideology of Porn is basically the same as Puritanism, and its effects on our sex life are quite similar. ...

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Average reading time: 5-6 minutes.I have been talking about providing orgasms to your lover, and how so few people are able to achieve it, and I have not ...

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Average reading time: 6 minutesLet's be clear: to me, consent is an extremely important, essential, and indispensable concept. But consent is only the surface part of actual respect. ...

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Average reading time: 6 minutesAs I mentioned before, talking about sex is useful, in fact it is essential if you want it to be pleasant. The first step ...

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Average reading time : 3-4 minutes. Making love is like a dance - both take part, but at any given time, one of the two partners has a ...

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Average reading time: 8-9 minutes. This is a common complaint, especially from men. There is a classic tale that “women lose interest in sex after a couple of ...

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Average reading time: 6-7 minutesApparently, there is some societal pressure (“norms”) as to how much time you spend making love. There is a paradox between the societal pressure ...

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Average reading time: 9 minutes.It's a classic stereotype: men are always hungry for sex (or supposed to be), and whenever they meet someone they might be attracted to, ...

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Average reading time: 4 minutes. I don't own my body. I AM my body.  If they steal or destroy my car, I am still alive and free. If I ...

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Average reading time: 8-9 minutesThis is a staple of human wisdom, from Socrates to contemporary humorists: the less one knows about something, the more it seems simple, easy-to-understand, ...

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Average reading time: 5 minutes. There is no bigger turn-off than a partner who is complaining, making a reproach, or being needy. But frustration is one of the ...

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Average reading time: 7 minutes.Sodomy is a fantasy for many of us. However, for many, it remains a fantasy, or a one-time, painful, memory. 72% of women report ...

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Average reading time: 7 minutes.We have all heard the word “toxic masculinity”... Like many phrases, it has been used, and misused, as an insult to dismiss someone “you’re ...

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